The Balance

Met a truly interesting person that does not use Facebook, never used a dating app, and per their own words “lives in a bubble”. I really enjoyed hearing how their life, sans kids, is unstructured, and they don’t worry about the news or the world or even time. I truly strive to attain that mindset for even one hour a week!!!

As talked more, my conversation partner admitted it can actually be problematic to check out so thoroughly, so often. That they end up not accomplishing necessary life tasks and miss out on connecting with their fellow human beings.

I was left contemplating balance since that discussion, specifically balance in all parts of our lives. I believe one of the most important reasons to stay open to new experiences is that it provides new data. Data that helps us recognize when we have become to stuck in our ways and out of balance. 

When we are out of balance is when we are most likely to shy away from the new and unknown. Yet, that is when we need it the most.

I wonder if it would help if we ask our friends to keep us on our toes? Or schedule random events we can’t cancel? Or is it just good old mindful self-awareness and honesty that makes some open and some closed to the new? 


1 Response to “The Balance”

  1. 1 Zettafit (@Zettafit1) December 13, 2016 at 2:08 pm

    Interesting discussion. Have experienced both worlds, the one always on the go and the other completely opposite and isolated. Both were destructive and I made a conscious decision to strive for balance, still engage in the world but not be controlled by it. Nobody can tell you what to do, you have to be willing to search for awareness yourself. What fits You best?

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